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This October, we are fighting patriarchy. One burnt paper at a time. Join us!

Do you think walking a few miles, stopping at a place, and picking up some salt is going to free you from the government?

Not really.

And definitely not directly.

But here's what it does do though.

When you take that long-ass walk, people see you.

And then people join you.

Because honestly, it's kinda easy that way.

It's easier to walk with a crowd than to stand in front of the government and say, "fuck off."

And the government isn't exactly scared of one person walking.

So it lets you walk.

But then more and more people join.

And suddenly, the government realises that this isn't one person anymore.

It's a movement.

And even if the crowd is, for now, symbolically just picking up salt, it says something about what that crowd might be willing to do next.

And when you don't give people what they want, people eventually start taking matters into their own hands.

Sometimes literally.
Sometimes, unfortunately, figuratively.

And that's when things start changing.

Because somewhere along the way, a bunch of individuals stop feeling like individuals.

They start feeling like they're part of one common goal.

That's what symbolic acts can do.

→They create solidarity.
→They make people feel like, "Oh. I'm not the only one who thinks this."

And that's how movements begin.

→One person at a time.
→One symbolic act at a time.

So what are we doing now?

Well, me and my TwoXTopia team are going to fight the patriarchy.

The long-term goal is to
"dismantle the existing system"

The short-term goal however is to "start burning paper"

It's simple.

→Take a piece of paper.
→Write down one thing you hate about the patriarchy.
→And burn it.

That's it.

→Doesn't matter where you are.
→Doesn't matter what you write.
→Doesn't even matter if it's something huge or something that sounds ridiculously small.

Because the point isn't the paper.

The point is knowing that somewhere else, another woman is doing the exact same thing.

And once enough of us are doing it, we'll figure out what comes next.

Dismantling patriarchy from its roots is obviously a little more complicated than burning a piece of paper.

It's going to take time.

It's going to take a lot more than a hashtag.

But we'll figure it out.

Won't we, girls?

So, in the meantime,

Go burn that paper.

Post it online

Use the hashtags :
#SmashThePatriarchy #TwoXTopia

Not because a hashtag is going to dismantle anything.

But because we want to know we're doing it together.

And honestly, the mere existence of TwoXTopia as a women-only app is already one tiny step towards building spaces outside the systems we're used to.

But we're going to do more.

Much more.

This is just the beginning.

I did my part, it's your turn now!

PS : Post a video or a picture, show your face or don't show your face, post it on any social media platform. It doesn't matter what you choose to do. Just burn the words of patriarchy that you hate! Throughout October!

@prachi007 • 25d ago

Work rant part 2?

It is okay to make mistakes, it's important to own upto them and rectify them. That's what I have learnt in my career, that's what I teach my juniors, that's what my seniors taught me.
BUT THESE PEOPLE NOT ONLY HAVE ZERO SENSE OF RESPONSIBILITY AND ACCOUNTABILITY, THEY BLAME SOMEONE INNOCENT AND DEFEND THEMSELVES

@MissK • 2h ago

Hi, I'm aparna! 👋

I'm a security engineer seeking female friends for weekend plans. I love gaming, skating, binge-watching, cooking, and hitting the gym after eating good food! Open to sports, coffee runs, & unfiltered girl talk. Drop a message if you'd like to connect! ✨

@aparna • 17h ago

The Nightly Unwind | POV: The Weekend Shift

The corporate mask is OFF. What version of yourself are we stepping into this weekend? Are you "Rotting in Bed with 14 Snacks," "The High-Energy Socialite," "The Master Chef in Training," or "Solo Museum Wanderer"? Claim your weekend energy below!

@twoxtopia • 17h ago

Hi, I'm Aastha! 👋

Hellu :0

@aastha • 19h ago

Hi, I'm nightshade_19! 👋

Helluu

@nightshade_19 • 19h ago

Free this weekend? Join these meetups!

You might not have a plan this weekend, but don't worry, TwoXTopia got you covered!

31st Oct, 3-7pm, Bangalore Creatives Circus, Yeshwantpur



TwoXTopia is celebrating its 1st year anniversary with a Halloween celebration and huge does of feminism.
The event is called Witches Vs Patriarchy.
It includes food, goodies, and lots of games. Plus getting dressed up as your scariest and witchiest best.
Ticket price : Rs 1250
https://twox.in/post/ZbWM-Witches-Vs-Patriarchy-A-Halloween-Meetup-on-31st

31st Oct, 10am-1pm, Cubbon Park



A picnic with some crochet! Materials would be provided. Only 4 spots available.
Ticket price : Rs 899
https://twox.in/post/wZGg-Crochet-picnic-at-Cubbon-park-anyone




And that's all! Let us know what you are up to this weekend!

Either make a post in the Hangout section if you are organising a meetup or in the tag along section if you are going somewhere and would love company!

You can also tell us about your plans in the comment section just to flex where you are going and if you don't really need company 😝

Free this weekend? Join these meetups!
@prachi007 • 21h ago

Girlie, how was your week? 💗

Did you tick something off your to-do list, step out of your comfort zone, or finally do something for yourself?
Maybe you had a productive week, maybe you spent most of it just trying to get through the days. And that's okay too.💜

No achievements too small, no feelings too silly. Let's hear it all! 🫶✨

#friday #weekend

@twoxtopia • 1d ago

The Nightly Unwind | POV: The Mildly Unhinged Hot Take

Thursday unwind debate: Drop one completely harmless, low-stakes hot take that you will passionately defend to the death. (e.g., "Iced coffee in winter is superior," "Voicemails should be illegal," "Group travel is a setup"). Let's hear your most stubborn opinions below!

@twoxtopia • 1d ago

GIRLIES, WE NEED TO TALK. 💌👀

Is it better to hear the harsh truth or live in blissful ignorance? Asking for a friend. 🤡

Got a dilemma, a confusing situationship, a life crisis, or a decision you just CANNOT make? Drop it anonymously and let the girlies weigh in. 💅🏻

No judgement, just girl talk. 🫶🏻

#girltalk #thursday

@twoxtopia • 2d ago