Thoughtful conversations in cubbon
I learned recently that lonliness is often the lack of something very specific for each one of us, For me for example my lonliness stems from overgiving or caring too much but often not being seen in the same way, for others it may mean not having someone to go on trips with or not having someone to listen or even not having someone who they could listen to and be there for.
And very often in trying to curate the perfect life on the outside these things rarely get discussed, in addition just being part of a city means, it hard to find people who understand you and show up for you.
Atleast this has been my experience.. I felt the cure for such things in life is always more love, more openess, more courage to share our struggles and a safe space to do so.
I felt this could be a meaningful meetup, to reflect, talk abotu our struggles, mainly with making friend and lonliness, things we may be scared to admit, a place to see and hear each other.
Friendships arent built in a day, they take years of showing up, understanding and loving and they strongest friendships are built from the toughest situations, most courageous people willing to fight for each other, but i felt this could be a good starting point <3
Location Maps link :-
Need to get down near the tonique exit and come opposite to the cubbon reads gathering point added location for the exact tree aswell, one if those famous trees :)
https://maps.app.goo.gl/hx7FiFW3kS332p7j9?g_st=ic
Update:- Postponing this event to next week, and please comment if you are interested, so ill have a count and apologies to anyone who had planned this for 13th june, will definetly be hosting this though<33 hope to see you all 🥹
Let's meet talk our hearts out, shed the fear of vulnerability,let our souls fall in the safety of kind community.
meeting point :- Tree No. 2063 Treeboard
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6If you're conducting the meetup tomorrow, could you please confirm it here in the comments? I'll most likely be there either way since I enjoy spending time at Cubbon Park and don't mind exploring on my own 😊
That said, if you're organizing a meetup, it would be really helpful to keep everyone updated about whether it's happening or not. A lot of people plan their time around these events, and a quick confirmation or cancellation message goes a long way. Since there haven't been any replies to the comments since the post went up, I just wanted to check in.
Thank you, and hope the meetup goes well if it's happening! 🌿
thank you for showing your interest means alot to me <3
Don't worry about missing this one though, you can do a meetup next you feel good. Just make sure you are available for it and don't cancel it even if it's only one person who shows up
and yes i shall not cancel, again, i feel very passionate about this topic, so will be happy to host regardless :)
anywho, apologies and yes i will be moving this to next saturday, i dont see any events right now for next saturday so should be good
I'm thinking of coming. How long would you girls be staying there? It's 11:20am almost. It'll take me 20 mins to reach. Are you at the same tree location?
Btw you should add a proper direction about finding the tree. Which gate should one enter from, what's near the tree, how to walk towards it, directions like "come straight and take a left from XYZ landmark"
Giving the tree number alone is not helpful
this is right opposite the cubbon reads meetign point https://maps.app.goo.gl/hx7FiFW3kS332p7j9?g_st=ic