Timelines and deadlines....

I mean I don't know but life feels like on a strict timeline. Like somewhere someone or something will be left behind if you don't do things like how everyone does. You don't have a job by now, never did sex with anyone, not interested in getting married, never had a boyfriend or a girlfriend. Why is there a pressure for everything? Why does it feel like every breath we take and every thought we hold it's under scrutiny by someone?? It's like the pressure is building behind the eyes and someday it'll out taking someone's head with it..